Monday, July 18, 2005

love story

oh how i wish i would die like this!!!!

this is a story of mr and mrs kapasi. he was 75 and she was 71. so much in love that they never stayed away from each other. they had been married for some 51 years but never tired of each other. whereever they would go they'd be together.

this happened some 5 years back. he wasn't keeping well. nothing serious, just old age. his wife was absolutely well and used to take care of him. day and night she would look after him. never leaving his side. at nights she would stay awake just to see if he was all right. she never allowed her children to stay awake late for him. she said she was capable of looking after him and as long as she could she would help him herself. so the days passed by.

then one day he fell very ill. he had to be hospitalised. 15 days he was in the hospital. she knew it was useless now. he wasn't going to get back home. since she was so old her children did not allow her to stay in the hospital at nights. at home she would stay awake all night worrying about him.

on the 15th day she was sent home as usual. her eldest son was staying in the hospital. she was so tired and exhausted and depressed that she didn't know when she fell asleep.

she never woke up!!!

she had given up hope and had died in her sleep. her husband was never told about this because her children knew that he too would lose hope if he knew. amazingly he got well in 2 days time and he was sent home. he had to be kept in bed but he was better. now he kept asking for his wife and his children had to make n number of reasons to pacify him. no one was allowed to wear white and go in front of him. everyone had to hide their tears so that he didn't know.

some 14 days passed this way. as it is in the hindu culture after 14 days of death everyone is called home for lunch. so all relatives were invited. he was kept in a separate room so that he didn't know.

but how long could he be kept in the dark? he heard voices in the house and knew something fishy was going on. he demanded to know what it was and he had to be told. he was devastated.

from that day on he never spoke to anyone in the house. he missed her so much that he would keep on looking at her picture and cry. he did not even eat well and lost all happiness in life.

exactly one month after his wife's death he too left this world!!! maybe to be with her, maybe not.

he was my nanaji and she was my nani

oh how i wish i would die like this!!!

17 comments:

Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr said...

Ohhhhh.....
The love part between ur nana-nani was so touching....

Oh boy....I so wish my wife would do something like this for me when I get old...I mean, I dont wanna her to die behind my back or something...

Musings....me too wishing the same now....

messys musings said...

zoon the ay my nanaji expired i was out of town for a frnds wedding.. when i was back i was so shocked i didnt know wat to do... but since that day i wished id die like this...

Tanvi said...

itz amazin how 2 ppl can be so much in love..eyez we all dream n wish for a life like that...but some are lucky..ur nana nani were awesome ppl and i wish i grow up to be like them too and find someone to share that with..

Anonymous said...

reminds me of kabootar and kabootari

Michelle said...

wow...i almost cried!!!! damn touchin...even i wish i die like this!!!
adios!!!
michelle

--pearl-- said...

Beautiful,touching,n very rare to find this kind of a beautiful relationship...May god bless both of them.

Dewdrop said...

Very touching story. My dadaji and dadima kind of had a similar death. Dadaji went first at the age of 75. Exactly 4 months after spending her time in 'iddat' dadima passed away.
(iddat is a waiting period a Muslim woman is imposed on after the death of her husband)

messys musings said...

tan
we all wish that dont we

anon
thanx for visiting

ice princess
u fay??? dont cry just wish u die like this

avik
thanx

pearl
we all want to find such a relationship... i dont deny that they never had problems in their lives.. but the same problems got their bond of love strong... thats more important

dewdy
i have lived all my life with muslims.. my best friend is one so i know wats iddat... n about ur dadaji n dadi...well as i said id like to die this death myself...

anubhav said...

touching story, may their souls rest in peace.

Kroopa Shah (Kr00pz) said...

Very touching.....

Sujith said...

touching...

Keshi said...

dunno if I want to die that old anyways...me not fond of a long life...hehe...

but a very nice story depicting the most valuable sentiments of love and faith one should have in the one he/she marries...

Keshi.

messys musings said...

anubhav kroopa thanx

jithu thanx for visiting my blog...

yeah grey may their souls rest in peace

lol keshi i dont want to live so long myself...but i want to die like this...

Invincible said...

that was touching indeed ..

we hear of such luv n bonding only in movies/fwded mails..

it's too deep a luv to b real in the world we see ..
i bow 2 them, n preying for their souls to the almighty ..

Keshi said...

hehe eyezzz u may want to die like this but death has it's own way of approaching ya...no choice there :(

but yeah lovely way to die...very lucky people do exist on Earth.

Keshi.

Vinz said...

i wish the same...

Now, in ths world of marriage-divorce-in-short-span, your real life story shud inspire some...atleast it did with me.. hope others too....

Gud post

Anonymous said...

I want to be immortal