Friday, July 15, 2005

what would you do????????

yesterday i came across an article about a new movie being made on karisma kapoors break-up with sanjay kapur... it just got me wondering what emotions she must be going through right now...

but i really dont want to talk about her failed marriage... everyone must have read loads of that... some true facts some false ones...

lets talk about abhishek and karisma... they were a couple for a long time... then they got engaged... and then one fine day we read that their engagement has been cancelled... so what really happened then??? ... the kapoors called off the engagement and babita was blamed for the whole episode... its made to believe that since abhisheks career wasn't taking him anywhere babita wasn't happy with the idea of karisma getting married to him...

now i got a few questions for u....

we have a much in love couple and for reasons known to all of us they dont get married... the girl gets married to another friend 'on rebound'.... a year later she gives birth to a baby girl and also gets a divorce.... now the important question... what would you do if you were in karismas place and met abhishek at some party????... n vice versa???... would you ignore him or atleast be nice and say something???.... how would you take the relationship further???... would you be able to keep yourself away from the person you love so much??? ... or would you atleast try to be friends???

i want to know this because there are a lot of other karismas and abhisheks in this world... so much in love but not together... what if karisma was still married??? .... should she atleast keep in touch with abhishek???... could they have been friends???... let me know what u think about this...

19 comments:

Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr said...

I too read about this...
Karisma tried to save her marriage by getting pregnant n all..thought her new baby would save the break up. But anyway...it was sad.

Dont know much on wht happend b/w Abhi and Kari..this was new to me that babita was the reason for the engagement breakup. Oh boy!!

And now media is planning to release a movie on her life....hmmm....something to wait and watch

messys musings said...

ufff z00n tell me wat would u do in karis or abhis place...read the questions and answer them...n i never knew kari got pregnant bcoz of her breaking marriage... this is news to me now!!!

Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr said...

If I was in Kari's place...I wud first of all not marry someone who was already a married guy. Comeon, that was not at all right on part of Kari to break someone else's marriage like this.

If I was in place of abhi...I dont think I wud have kept any contacts with such a person who left him for someone else. I'm sure, nothing was wrong on part of that poor chap...I think they both wud have made a perfect couple.

--pearl-- said...

two lova'z shouldnt be kept apart..its jus..well depressing..

if i was in karishma'z place...uhmmmm well i cant see me in her place..coz i wouldnt eva do sumthin lyke dat..u knw after engagement..leave sumone..n all dat..its not fair to break sumones heart..especially after commiting..

Kroopa Shah (Kr00pz) said...

Personally, I don't know. Its a tricky situation to be in. Now that her marriage is broken I don't think it makes a difference if she does or doesn't get back with Abhishek now. Her marriage was a mistake.
I cannot imagine myself in her place. I don't think I can marry someone who was already married before.

Keshi said...

hmm I really dunno the love story of Karisma n Abhishek. My answers to ur Qs should be based upon the facts of this story which I dunno fully.

So I'd just say that if Karisma was in love with Abhishek then called off the wedding n married a married guy n then got divorced, n then met Abhishek at a party...then if I were Karisma (provided I had my valid reasons to break off with Abhishek back then), I would walk upto him n talk to him...catch up with him n see how he is going. If I really loved him with all my heart n soul, I would not be able to keep away from telling him that either...no matter how terrible the times n the circumstances may be...life is too short to hide ur feelings...n if he isnt interested in me anymore, then that's fine too...guess that's the way it's supposed to be then...u gotta move on.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

btw my ex-bf eventually chose his family's choice of bride...reason was he couldnt say NO to his rather strict family who tied him down to a past promise between his family n the bride's family.

Later on I did meet him at a party n he looked so depressed...he told me he wasnt so happy. I hated to see him that way but life is like that...hearts get broken often.

Keshi.

Tanvi said...

hey eyez..i didn't noe bout the break up..i knew wen she got married n all..but i didnt noe all the detailz..now that i do...i think it was wrong on karishma'z part to leave abhishek like that...but we dont noe the reality..all these media people kinda over exaggerate..so maybe under some circumtances..she just had to do that(like u mentioned..her mom..maybe karishma was pressured)but it didnt really work out for her..newayz..now that she met him in the party .. i'd say to go upto him and juz talk like friendz..and if he still feelz the same way bout her..then maybe it could work out..but then again u cant really decide until u are in that situation..

messys musings said...

hey all thanx for commenting.. according to me abhishek still loves kari...n they should atleast b friends.. its a shame that such a lovely relationship is going waste because of social pressures...

Keshi said...

if social pressure is stopping them from being together, is there real LOVE in there? As far as I believe LOVE should see no barrier...nothing at all.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

well-said misty -it can't be said any better!

Keshi.

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Tanvi said...

oh oh..change of template?

Tanvi said...

oh oh..change of template?

messys musings said...

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Sonia said...

i think this is something that we cannot accurately say anything about. too much is hype and rumors to actually give a proper picture. i feek its a private thing.

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Vinz said...

Nice topic....

I always read such bollywood masalas with lots of interest. Not becoz of tht i lik gossips,but to know their living ways. I always wonder wt exactly do they mean by love,which yet i hvnt figured out.

If she had real love for Abhishek he shud hav moved out wit him. Coming from so high class society i dnt thnk it wud hav been a problem for to follow her likes. And if she agreed to her mom abt the not-so-hit abhisheks career,i thnk her love was a false one. For me it shud hv been like tht time karisma shud hv supported abhishek. And abhishek had really proved his mettle.

I wont b in karismas shoes at any cost. First of all i wudnt hv ditched abhishek wit a reason tht hs career is taking off. Thn i wudnt hv engeged to him bfore he getting settled. To me after gettting engaged publically and ditching him was smethg un pardonable. Now i just can say its what you sow what you reap....

As far as abhishek, its he who is really the luckier. He gt escaped from such a bad mentality girl. Hope he gets a better girl who luks his character rather than his career...

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